Fortunately, the girls, who practice three times a week, have also found in the sport and each other the flipside of rivalry camaraderie. Although the rules are similar, flag football is a non-contact version of the classic game. Instead of tackling and blocking, players pull a flag from their opponents waist to end a play.
The sports popularity has spiked in the United States within recent years, particularly amongst young girls, according to Samantha Rapoport, manager of the NFL Girls Flag Football Leadership Program. Girls flock to sports that are more social, Rapoport said. When there are seven girls in a huddle, theyre strategizing. What you do affects other people. Its not like running track its always about being out for your teammates.
As it turns out, flag football is also more forgiving when it comes to body size. Unlike in swimming, volleyball or marathon running, girls neednt be overly muscular, tall or slim or compete.
It doesnt matter what size you are, theres always a spot on the team, she said.
At M.S. 217, one of three Queens middle schools that created flag football teams this year and will be competing in next weeks Thanksgiving Classic all-city tournament in the Bronx, physical education teacher and Coach Michael Barzilay said over 100 girls originally signed up for the team. From that number, about 30 players were selected.
Far more girls than boys showed interest, Barzilay said.
The team has already competed in one tournament, in which they faced 14 junior high school teams from all five boroughs, including I.S. 190, P.S. 286 in Astoria and M.S. 172 in Floral Park, though the girls say their first effort wasnt a major success.
Half the girls didnt know what they were doing, Kadim said. But Im not scared. Well do better.
The team is preparing for both the Thanksgiving game, which will take place on Nov. 24 from 4 until 6:30 p.m. at John F. Kennedy High School in the Bronx, as well as a major tournament on Dec. 5.
Even some of the big-league teams are showing their support for the nascent sport. The New York Jets have donated $50,000 to assist in the C.H.A.M.P.S. Middle School Sport and Fitness League, which is responsible for growing flag football.
You dont get the enjoyment from tackling people, said Harding, who has always played full contact football with friends. But it motivates you. Its challenging. And we all get along.

